Enjoyable xxx: it’s not about technique or a perfect body or being hopelessly, passionately in love. It’s about xxxual Intelligence.
In his three decades of working with couples and individuals as a xxx therapist and marriage counselor, Dr. Marty Klein has continually seen that although most people say what they want from xxx is pleasure and closeness, that’s not what they focus on during xxx. Instead, we’re preoccupied with how we look, what our partner is thinking, how we’re performing, and whether we’re “normal.” We do more thinking, worrying, and judging than experiencing. xxx like that can’t thrill us, can’t create intimacy, and can’t, well, feel xxxy.

Most marriage books assume the author did it right. Most marriage books barely mention friendship. Most marriage books use “intimacy” as code for “xxx.” This is not one of those books.